Waitlist FAQ

How long will I be on the waitlist?

Narcissism and related issues can’t be resolved in a short period of time. The psychotherapy that I provide often takes a minimum of one year before significant changes begin to occur. This is because narcissism is a personality-based issue, meaning that it affects the fundamental ways that a person views themselves and the world around them. It is often necessary to work through considerable defenses and protective layers that may not be conscious.

Because of this, openings in my practice occur infrequently. You may be on the waitlist for 6 months or more. I understand that this might be too long to wait for some individuals who have a pressing need for help and support. I encourage you to add your name to the list and to seek alternative services in the interim.

I don’t live in New York or California. Can I still receive services?

Unfortunately, at this time I am only licensed to provide psychological services to individuals who reside in the states of California and New York. Services to those who reside outside of the US are discussed on an individual basis.

Can you provide referrals to someone in my area?

Sadly, there are not many clinicians who specialize in this area of practice. It is likely that I will not be able to provide you a referral to someone practicing in your area. In my experience, analytically trained or oriented clinicians are often better equipped to effectively treat narcissistic issues. My best recommendation is to look up psychoanalytic societies or training institutes in your region or state. Send an email to their published contact information requesting a referral.  

What else can I do while I wait?

If you haven’t already, I encourage you to watch the videos and read the articles on this website. You may also find my book helpful. I am investigating the possibility of creating some therapy groups that would meet online. I will be sending out more information about this possibility to individuals on the waitlist. If you feel that you need services soon, please reach out to licensed professionals in your area. If you are in crisis, go to the emergency department at your local hospital or call the National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline by dialing 988.